Proverbs 25:20 Meaning and Explanation
“As he that taketh away a garment in cold weather, and as vinegar upon nitre, so is he that singeth songs to an heavy heart.”
King James Version (KJV)
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Read Full Chapter →Singing cheerfully to a grieving person is like taking away his cloak in winter or pouring vinegar on soda—it makes things worse.
The Context of Proverbs 25:20
The wrongness of forcing cheer on those who grieve.
What Does Proverbs 25:20 Mean?
Two vivid images convey the wrongness of forcing cheer on someone in pain. In cold weather, removing someone's garment would be cruel; it exposes him further to the cold rather than comforting him. Vinegar poured on nitre creates a chemical reaction that fizzes and disperses rather than helping. Neither act addresses the real need.
A person with a heavy heart needs compassion and understanding, not forced optimism. Well-intentioned attempts to make him happy only emphasize his sorrow and show that the helper does not understand his pain. True kindness sometimes means sitting quietly with someone's grief rather than trying to sing it away.
Frequently Asked Questions About Proverbs 25:20
What does Proverbs 25:20 mean?
Singing cheerfully to a grieving person is like taking away his cloak in winter or pouring vinegar on soda—it makes things worse.
What is the context of Proverbs 25:20?
The wrongness of forcing cheer on those who grieve.