2 Samuel 13:12

2 Samuel 13:12 Meaning and Explanation

And she answered him, Nay, my brother, do not force me; for no such thing ought to be done in Israel: do not thou this folly.

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Tamar resists with clear moral reason, pleading that such an act is an outrage in Israel.

What Does 2 Samuel 13:12 Mean?

Tamar answers with courage and clarity. She names the act plainly — "do not force me" — and appeals to what is right: such a thing is not done in Israel, the covenant people set apart for holiness. She calls it "folly," a word for moral outrage, not mere foolishness.

In a moment of terror Tamar speaks truth boldly. Her words are righteous and wise, grounded in God's covenant and the dignity it gives every person. Scripture honors her voice, preserving her protest for all generations. The fault that follows is in no way hers; she did everything right. Her plea reminds us that the wronged are never silenced before God, whose ear is bent toward the cry of the innocent.

2 Samuel 13:12 in the Original Language

Nebalah (נְבָלָה), 'folly' -- not harmless foolishness but a serious moral outrage, a disgraceful act against God's order.

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Tamar resists with clear moral reason, pleading that such an act is an outrage in Israel.

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