Deuteronomy 21:13 Meaning and Explanation
“And she shall put the raiment of her captivity from off her, and shall remain in thine house, and bewail her father and her mother a full month: and after that thou shalt go in unto her, and be her husband, and she shall be thy wife.”
King James Version (KJV)
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Read Full Chapter →After a month of mourning, they may marry and begin intimate life together.
The Context of Deuteronomy 21:13
After mourning, a formal marriage begins with full spousal rights.
What Does Deuteronomy 21:13 Mean?
The month of mourning is a key protection. During this time, she remains in his house but is not intimate with him; she grieves her lost family and adjusts to her new circumstances. Only after this period ends may they become a married couple with full marital relations. The law thus protects both her dignity and his future marriage.
By removing her captive clothing and allowing her to mourn, the law affirms her humanity. She is not a prisoner or slave to be used; she becomes a wife with the status and protections that marriage conveys. If he later chooses to release her, she must be freed—she cannot be sold.
Deuteronomy 21:13 in the Original Language
yadal (יָדַל), 'remain'—to sit, dwell, or abide in a place.
Frequently Asked Questions About Deuteronomy 21:13
What does Deuteronomy 21:13 mean?
After a month of mourning, they may marry and begin intimate life together.
What is the context of Deuteronomy 21:13?
After mourning, a formal marriage begins with full spousal rights.