Chapter 13
Themes, discussion questions, Christ connections, and denomination lenses.
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KJV1A wise son heareth his father’s instruction: but a scorner heareth not rebuke.
2A man shall eat good by the fruit of his mouth: but the soul of the transgressors shall eat violence.
3He that keepeth his mouth keepeth his life: but he that openeth wide his lips shall have destruction.
4The soul of the sluggard desireth, and hath nothing: but the soul of the diligent shall be made fat.
5A righteous man hateth lying: but a wicked man is loathsome, and cometh to shame.
6Righteousness keepeth him that is upright in the way: but wickedness overthroweth the sinner.
7There is that maketh himself rich, yet hath nothing: there is that maketh himself poor, yet hath great riches.
8The ransom of a man’s life are his riches: but the poor heareth not rebuke.
9The light of the righteous rejoiceth: but the lamp of the wicked shall be put out.
10Only by pride cometh contention: but with the well advised is wisdom.
11Wealth gotten by vanity shall be diminished: but he that gathereth by labour shall increase.
12Hope deferred maketh the heart sick: but when the desire cometh, it is a tree of life.
13Whoso despiseth the word shall be destroyed: but he that feareth the commandment shall be rewarded.
14The law of the wise is a fountain of life, to depart from the snares of death.
15Good understanding giveth favour: but the way of transgressors is hard.
16Every prudent man dealeth with knowledge: but a fool layeth open his folly.
17A wicked messenger falleth into mischief: but a faithful ambassador is health.
18Poverty and shame shall be to him that refuseth instruction: but he that regardeth reproof shall be honoured.
19The desire accomplished is sweet to the soul: but it is abomination to fools to depart from evil.
20He that walketh with wise men shall be wise: but a companion of fools shall be destroyed.
21Evil pursueth sinners: but to the righteous good shall be repayed.
22A good man leaveth an inheritance to his children’s children: and the wealth of the sinner is laid up for the just.
23Much food is in the tillage of the poor: but there is that is destroyed for want of judgment.
24He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes.
25The righteous eateth to the satisfying of his soul: but the belly of the wicked shall want.
“He that walketh with wise men shall be wise: but a companion of fools shall be destroyed.”
Overview
This chapter addresses the fruits of wise and foolish living in practical terms: the wise son heeds his father's instruction while the scorner refuses rebuke, the diligent accumulate wealth gradually while get-rich-quick schemes lead to poverty, and hope deferred makes the heart sick but desire fulfilled is a tree of life. Solomon stresses that walking with wise companions makes one wise, while the companion of fools shall be destroyed.
Key Themes
The Influence of Companions
He that walks with wise men shall be wise, but the companion of fools shall be destroyed — the people we choose to walk with profoundly shape our character and destiny.
Gradual, Faithful Accumulation
Wealth gotten by vanity shall diminish, but he that gathers by labor shall increase — faithfulness in small things over time produces lasting fruit.
The Discipline of Love
He that spares the rod hates his son, but he that loves him chastens him early — true love includes the willingness to correct and train.
Study Questions
How does the principle 'he that walketh with wise men shall be wise' (v. 20) challenge us to evaluate our closest relationships?
What does 'hope deferred maketh the heart sick' (v. 12) teach about the emotional reality of waiting, and how does 'the tree of life' of fulfilled desire bring healing?
How does verse 7 — 'there is that maketh himself rich, yet hath nothing; and there is that maketh himself poor, yet hath great riches' — subvert worldly definitions of wealth?
Why does Solomon connect loving discipline with genuine love for a child (v. 24)?
What does it mean that 'the light of the righteous rejoiceth' while 'the lamp of the wicked shall be put out' (v. 9)?
Connection to Christ
Jesus is the wise companion who transforms those who walk with Him. He is the desire of nations, the tree of life whose coming fulfills the deepest hope of the human heart. Christ also embodies the loving discipline of the Father — He chastens those He loves that they might share in His holiness (Hebrews 12:10).
Personal Reflection
Take time to journal or meditate on what God is teaching you through Proverbs 13. How can these truths transform your thinking and actions today?