Chapter 5
Themes, discussion questions, Christ connections, and denomination lenses.
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KJV1My son, attend unto my wisdom, and bow thine ear to my understanding:
2That thou mayest regard discretion, and that thy lips may keep knowledge.
3For the lips of a strange woman drop as an honeycomb, and her mouth is smoother than oil:
4But her end is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword.
5Her feet go down to death; her steps take hold on hell.
6Lest thou shouldest ponder the path of life, her ways are moveable, that thou canst not know them.
7Hear me now therefore, O ye children, and depart not from the words of my mouth.
8Remove thy way far from her, and come not nigh the door of her house:
9Lest thou give thine honour unto others, and thy years unto the cruel:
10Lest strangers be filled with thy wealth; and thy labours be in the house of a stranger;
11And thou mourn at the last, when thy flesh and thy body are consumed,
12And say, How have I hated instruction, and my heart despised reproof;
13And have not obeyed the voice of my teachers, nor inclined mine ear to them that instructed me!
14I was almost in all evil in the midst of the congregation and assembly.
15Drink waters out of thine own cistern, and running waters out of thine own well.
16Let thy fountains be dispersed abroad, and rivers of waters in the streets.
17Let them be only thine own, and not strangers’ with thee.
18Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth.
19Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love.
20And why wilt thou, my son, be ravished with a strange woman, and embrace the bosom of a stranger?
21For the ways of man are before the eyes of the LORD, and he pondereth all his goings.
22His own iniquities shall take the wicked himself, and he shall be holden with the cords of his sins.
23He shall die without instruction; and in the greatness of his folly he shall go astray.
“For the ways of man are before the eyes of the LORD, and he pondereth all his goings.”
Overview
Solomon delivers a solemn warning against the adulteress whose lips drip honey but whose end is bitter as wormwood. He urges his son to stay far from her door, lest he give his honor to strangers and mourn at the last when his flesh is consumed. The chapter concludes with a beautiful call to rejoice in the wife of one's youth and to drink deeply from one's own well, for the Lord sees all a man's ways.
Key Themes
The Deceptive Sweetness of Temptation
The forbidden woman's words are smoother than oil, but her path leads to death — what appears pleasant at first brings devastating and irreversible consequences.
The Joy of Marital Faithfulness
Solomon extols the beauty of faithful marriage, using the imagery of a private fountain and a loving wife whose affection satisfies at all times.
God's All-Seeing Eye
The ways of man are before the eyes of the Lord — there is no hidden sin, and the wicked man's own iniquities shall take him captive.
Study Questions
Why does Solomon describe the temptress's words as 'smoother than oil' (v. 3) yet her end as 'bitter as wormwood' (v. 4)? What does this teach about the nature of sin?
What does verse 11 — mourning 'at the last, when thy flesh and thy body are consumed' — reveal about the long-term consequences of sexual sin?
How does the imagery of the 'cistern' and 'well' (vv. 15-18) celebrate the exclusivity and beauty of marital intimacy?
What is the significance of verse 21 — that all of man's ways are 'before the eyes of the LORD'? How should this shape our private conduct?
How does the final verse's warning that the wicked 'shall go astray in the greatness of his folly' (v. 23) connect to the broader theme of wisdom versus folly?
Connection to Christ
Christ is the faithful Bridegroom who never strays from His bride, the church. The covenant faithfulness Solomon calls for in marriage is ultimately a reflection of Christ's unwavering love for His people. Where Adam failed and brought ruin through disobedience, Christ remained faithful and gave Himself completely for His bride (Ephesians 5:25-27).
Personal Reflection
Take time to journal or meditate on what God is teaching you through Proverbs 5. How can these truths transform your thinking and actions today?