Chapter 18
Themes, discussion questions, Christ connections, and denomination lenses.
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KJV1Through desire a man, having separated himself, seeketh and intermeddleth with all wisdom.
2A fool hath no delight in understanding, but that his heart may discover itself.
3When the wicked cometh, then cometh also contempt, and with ignominy reproach.
4The words of a man’s mouth are as deep waters, and the wellspring of wisdom as a flowing brook.
5It is not good to accept the person of the wicked, to overthrow the righteous in judgment.
6A fool’s lips enter into contention, and his mouth calleth for strokes.
7A fool’s mouth is his destruction, and his lips are the snare of his soul.
8The words of a talebearer are as wounds, and they go down into the innermost parts of the belly.
9He also that is slothful in his work is brother to him that is a great waster.
10The name of the LORD is a strong tower: the righteous runneth into it, and is safe.
11The rich man’s wealth is his strong city, and as an high wall in his own conceit.
12Before destruction the heart of man is haughty, and before honour is humility.
13He that answereth a matter before he heareth it, it is folly and shame unto him.
14The spirit of a man will sustain his infirmity; but a wounded spirit who can bear?
15The heart of the prudent getteth knowledge; and the ear of the wise seeketh knowledge.
16A man’s gift maketh room for him, and bringeth him before great men.
17He that is first in his own cause seemeth just; but his neighbour cometh and searcheth him.
18The lot causeth contentions to cease, and parteth between the mighty.
19A brother offended is harder to be won than a strong city: and their contentions are like the bars of a castle.
20A man’s belly shall be satisfied with the fruit of his mouth; and with the increase of his lips shall he be filled.
21Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof.
22Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD.
23The poor useth intreaties; but the rich answereth roughly.
24A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly: and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother.
“The name of the LORD is a strong tower: the righteous runneth into it, and is safe.”
Overview
This chapter addresses the dangers of isolation, hasty judgment, and careless speech. A man who isolates himself seeks his own desire and rages against all sound judgment. The name of the Lord is declared to be a strong tower where the righteous run and are safe. Solomon also warns that the one who answers a matter before hearing it commits folly, and that death and life are in the power of the tongue.
Key Themes
The Name of the Lord as a Strong Tower
The name of the Lord is a strong tower — the righteous run into it and are safe, finding their ultimate security not in wealth or walls but in God Himself.
Death and Life in the Power of the Tongue
The tongue has the power to produce death or life — those who love to use it will eat its fruit, whether sweet or bitter.
The Danger of Isolation and Hasty Judgment
Through desire a man isolates himself and rages against wisdom — and answering a matter before hearing it is folly and shame.
Study Questions
What does it mean to 'run into' the name of the Lord as a strong tower (v. 10)? How does this work in practice?
How does the contrast between the Lord as a strong tower (v. 10) and the rich man's wealth as his 'high wall' (v. 11) expose false security?
What does 'death and life are in the power of the tongue' (v. 21) mean, and how should this shape our daily speech?
Why is it 'folly and shame' to answer a matter before hearing it (v. 13)? How does this apply to conflict resolution?
What does verse 24 teach about the difference between casual acquaintances and a friend who 'sticketh closer than a brother'?
Connection to Christ
The name above all names is the name of Jesus — He is the strong tower into which all who believe may run and be eternally safe. He is also the friend who sticks closer than a brother, the one who never isolates Himself from sinners but draws near. Christ's words are life, and through His word He calls the dead to life and brings salvation to all who hear and believe.
Personal Reflection
Take time to journal or meditate on what God is teaching you through Proverbs 18. How can these truths transform your thinking and actions today?